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Truth Wins Out Opposes “Ex-Gay” Conference in Orlando, Releases New Survivor Video.

Wednesday, June 4th, 2008

Here is the latest press release from Truth Wins Out, and they have a new video!

In Exclusive New TWO Video, A Survivor Tells Of His Escape From ‘Ex-Gay’ Ministries

ORLANDO - A coalition of gay and lesbian community leaders held a media conference today to counter Focus on the Family’s ex-gay Love Won Out symposium, which will take place on Saturday. The ex-gay road show was specifically planned to coincide with Gay Days at Disney and to push Focus on the Family’s election year political agenda, says TruthWinsOut.org(TWO).

“Love Won Out distorts gay life and confuses stereotypes with science, while selling false hope to vulnerable people,” said TruthWinsOut.org’s Executive Director Wayne Besen, at the media conference. “The symposium promotes outdated ideas that are rejected by every reputable mental health association in America. Unfortunately, the real goal of this conference is to pass anti-gay laws and stigmatize gay men and women.”

The conference is strategically timed in a presidential year that will include a constitutional amendment on the Florida ballot that seeks to prohibit same-sex marriage and domestic partnership benefits. The event also coincides with Gay Days at Disney and takes place in the shadow of the monumental California Supreme Court ruling legalizing same-sex marriage. Focus on the Family has exploited these opportunities and promoted this conference by placing offensive billboards in Orlando.

“This is a hurtful symposium that sends the toxic message that some people are inferior and need to change,” said Besen. “Love Won Out divides communities and pits people against each other for political gain.”

To highlight the trauma ex-gay ministries often cause families, TWO released an exclusive video today documenting the story of “ex-gay” survivor Robert Elster, who participated in ex-gay programs for 20 years. Convinced by these groups that he was cured, he married his wife Judy for 15 years and they had two children. Unfortunately, the marriage ended because Robert had not become straight. He had been sold false hope and bought into what he now calls his “inauthentic self.” Today, he lives as an out, proud openly gay man in California.

Additionally, TWO will participate in a Saturday PFLAG-sponsored prayer vigil in front of the Love Won Out conference at 7AM. (First Presbyterian Church of Orlando, 106 East Church Street).

Today’s media conference was held at The Gay, Lesbian & Bisexual Community Center of Central Florida. Speakers included: Dr. Kathryn Norsworthy, licensed psychologist; Garrett Granger, Survivor of ex-gay ministries; Rev. John Middleton, Joy Metropolitan Community Church; Pastor Brei Taylor, Oasis Ministries; Linn Possell; Hope Unites United Church of Christ; Wayne Besen, Executive Director, TruthWinsOut.org.

Love Won Out is a quarterly ex-gay symposium that preys on vulnerable and desperate parents. John Paulk, an ex-gay leader who was on the cover of Newsweek, founded the program. Love Won Out suffered a major setback after Paulk was photographed inside a Washington, DC gay bar by Besen in 2000.

TruthWinsOut.org is a non-profit organization that counters right wing propaganda, exposes the “ex-gay” myth and educates America about gay life.

I met Mr. Elster at the vigil and panel discussion here in California. He struck me as a wonderful man, and I’m thrilled he was able to escape the clutches of the “ex-gay” industry and get his life on track. I am also glad he was able to create this video for TWO so more people can learn the insidious truth about the “ex-gay” ministries.

 

They’re Nothing if not Predictable.

Tuesday, May 6th, 2008

Those lovable RRRW purveyors of propaganda, that is. I can always count on them to react in a very specific manner to certain things, and again they’ve performed right on cue.

Yesterday there was to be a symposium at the American Psychiatric Association’s convention in Washington featuring Dr. Warren Throckmorton and Episcopal Bishop Gene Robinson. The symposium was canceled when Bishop Robinson pulled out, believing that it would be used as a public relations gimmick for Focus on the Family.

Well, it certainly has turned into a public relations gimmick. WorldNutDaily plays, under a headline reading ‘Gays’ shut down discussion of faith (italics and quotes theirs), the ever predictable religious persecution card. Right, we all know how their “discussions” go. Chock full of half-truths and non-truths. Anybody who dares to question them, bring out actual facts or declare a differing opinion is impugning their “deeply held religious beliefs”.

Peter LaBarbera, of Americans for Truth, said the reaction to a plan to talk “shows the intellectual shallowness of the gay side.”

“They’re afraid of a debate,” he said, noting it wouldn’t be correct to “paint Warren Throckmorton as the religious right.”

“The gay activists don’t want to admit ex-gays exist, when they clearly do,” he said.

The attack was launched by the Gay City News publication, which on April 24 denigrated Throckmorton as “a psychologist without state board certification and an advocate for ’sexual identity therapy’,” and quoted opponents calling him a “spin doctor of the ex-gay myth.”

Throckmorton openly admitted he doesn’t have a license in PA, which is where he practices. He is an advocate for sexual identity therapy and he makes false claims about the efficacy and safety of ex-gay “therapy”. How is anything that Gay City News published an “attack”?

“Bishop Robinson provided the following explanation,” Throckmorton wrote. “‘Conservatives, particularly Focus on the Family, were going to use this event to draw credibility to the so-called reparative therapy movement,’ Robinson told the Blade. ‘It became clear to me in the last couple of weeks that just my showing up and letting this event happen … lends credibility to that so-called therapy.’”

However, Throckmorton said there were problems with that statement.

“This is quite troubling and not at all accurate. Since no one on the panel planned to speak about reparative therapy, it is clear to me that the bishop was misinformed,” Throckmorton said. “The symposium was approved by the APA in October of 2007 and nothing has changed in the descriptions, personnel or intent of the symposium since then. The meeting is not going to endorse reparative approaches, or advocate for any change in APA policy.”

That dodge might be semi-believable if not for this article on April 18th which clearly links the symposium to Focus on the Family’s Love Won Out ex-gay road show. Does Throckmorton think everybody is as gullible as his fans are?

Scasta had described the panel as a “balanced discussion about religion and how it influences therapy.” He’s a former APA president and a “gay” psychiatrist.

“We wanted to talk rationally, calmly and respectfully to each other, but the external forces made it into a divisive debate it never intended to be.”

Anybody who insists on putting gay in quotation marks every time they print it, while not doing the same for words like religious, shows they had no intention whatsoever of having a fair and balanced discussion. Once again the true nature shows through even where the intent is to deceive.

Bishop Robinson did the right thing pulling out of this symposium. There was never a chance of it being anything but a platform for the RRRW to push their ex-gay agenda, then claim persecution when it was refuted with truth.

 

Top Researcher Claims Focus on the Family Distorted Work.

Thursday, May 1st, 2008

Not that this hasn’t happened countless times before, but it’s always nice to have another documented case of it. The more we have, the stronger our case is against these “pro-family” groups that seek only to harm.

 

Dr. Gary Remafedi Says Conservative Group Guilty of “Gross Misrepresentation” And Questions If Focus Actually Read His Article Before Misquoting It

NEW YORK – Truth Wins Out published a letter today from a researcher who claims Focus on the Family twisted his work. In the letter, Gary Remafedi, M.D., M.P.H., a professor of pediatrics at the University of Minnesota, asked Focus on the Family’s leader James Dobson to stop misrepresenting his findings from a key 1992 study.

“I want to draw your attention to a gross misrepresentation of our research at the website of Focus on the Family,” Remafedi wrote in his letter to Dobson. “More important, had the authors of “Myths and Facts” actually read the article, they would have found no support for their contention that ‘many children experience a period of sexual-identity confusion when they can be influenced in either direction.’”

(Full Text of Letter Below)

Remafedi’s report was published in Pediatrics in 1992. The study explored patterns of sexual orientation in a representative sample of more than 34,000 Minnesota students in grades 7 to 12. Focus on the Family distorted his findings to make the case that young people should not learn about homosexuality because they were sexually confused, and could thus be influenced by educational material.

“Focus on the Family has engaged in a disturbing pattern of misrepresenting the work of legitimate researchers to further their anti-gay agenda,” said Wayne Besen, Executive Director of TruthWinsOut.org. “We call on Focus on the Family to immediately expunge all falsehoods and fallacies presented as‘facts’ from their past and present literature.”

Focus on the Family has an ignoble history of manipulating or cherry picking the research of genuine scientists. Last year, several researchers held Dobson accountable for misrepresenting their work. Letters and videos from these scientists can be viewed at www.RespectMyResearch.org.

TruthWinsOut.org is currently working to find examples where right wing organizations have twisted scientific work. If you have a case that is worthy of investigation, please contact TWO’s Director of Research, Peter Cabrera, at petercabrera74@yahoo.com

FULL TEXT OF LETTER

Dr. James Dobson
Focus on the Family
Colorado Springs, CO 80995

April 30, 2008

Dear Dr. Dobson,

I want to draw your attention to a gross misrepresentation of our research at the website of “Focus on the Family” (see here). In the third paragraph of the article, “Myths and Facts,” our research is cited in support of the statement: “During early adolescence, many children experience a period of sexual-identity confusion when they can easily be influenced in either direction.”

First, please note that the citation itself is incorrect. The original article was published in Pediatrics, not Journal of Pediatrics. The correct reference is: Remafedi G, Resnick M, Blum R, Harris L. Demography of sexual orientation in adolescents. Pediatrics. 89(4):714-721, 1992. More important, had the authors of “Myths and Facts” actually read the article, they would have found no support for their contention that “many children experience a period of sexual-identity confusion when they can be influenced in either direction.” The word confusion does not appear in our article; nor did we find that anyone can influence a young person’s sexual identity.

The purpose of our study was to explore patterns of sexual orientation in a representative sample of more than 34,000 Minnesota students in grades 7 to 12. We found that the percentage of student who reported being “unsure” about their orientation steadily declined with age from 25.9% in 12-year-old persons to 5% in 18 year-old students (p. 716). Youth who were “unsure” were more likely than others to entertain homosexual fantasies and attractions and less likely to have had heterosexual experiences (p. 720). These and other data suggested that uncertainty about sexual orientation “gradually gives way to heterosexual or homosexual identification with the passage of time and/or with increasing sexual experience” (p. 720).

Please ask the authors of the misstatements to correct them as soon as possible. In the interest of accurate translation of research into practice, a copy of this letter will be posted at Truth Wins Out. Thank you for your attention.
Respectfully yours,

Gary Remafedi, M.D., M.P.H.
Professor, Department of Pediatrics
University of Minnesota
428 Oak Grove St.
Minneapolis, MN 55403

cc: Truth Wins Out

 

Truth Wins Out Protest Video!

Thursday, April 17th, 2008

The video of our protest against the Love Won Out symposium is now up at YouTube and Wayne Besen’s site, and it looks fabulous!



 

Truth Wins Out Trumps Love Won Out.

Saturday, April 12th, 2008
  Wayne Besen Kevin Nguyen
While Wayne Besen gets wired for sound, Kevin Nguyen asks the burning question: “When did you choose heterosexuality?”
 

Today was certainly an exciting and productive day. We gathered outside the Abundant Life Christian Fellowship in Mountain View, CA, at 11am with our signs and began our vigil. Originally our group numbered about 10 people and over time grew to approximately 22. Traffic on Leghorn St. was fairly constant so we got a good deal of attention and while some people showed obvious consternation over our presence many honked their horns in support.

Not long after our arrival some participants of Love Won Out began filing out of the church. One young woman approached our group and initiated a conversation. We discovered that she was lesbian and celibate. She explained while she wasn’t actively pursuing change she felt that celibacy was what made her feel most spiritually fulfilled. The more she spoke, however, I had to wonder–as did others in our group–if she was telling us this to convince us or herself.

Group Shot 1
Three brave attendees walk the gauntlet. We reassure them that contrary to what they’ve heard, Teh Gay isn’t really contagious.

At a later point a young man came by our group and became engaged in conversation with Wayne, David and a few others. He insisted that he was very pleased with what he was hearing in the symposium and was not hearing any of the negative things that are known to be said in such conferences. For example, he denied hearing that women become lesbians because they have been raped, or that men “turn” gay because they were molested or had poor relationships with their fathers. Despite his insistence that he was enjoying the symposium, however, I was pleasantly surprised to see him later at the panel discussion (details on that below). He’d apparently decided to skip the rest of the symposium and join us for some facts instead of propaganda.

During the vigil Wayne Besen conducted video interviews me Sapphocrat (my better half) and several of the other participants for Truth Wins Out. A reporter for the San Jose Mercury News also interviewed several individuals so look for a story about the event, likely in tomorrow’s edition. Finally, two women from In The Life stopped by for their own interviews so some of our group just may end up on their wonderful program!

In The Life conducts interviews
“In the Life” interviews David Nahmod.

During the symposium’s lunch break two guys approached us at a brisk pace. While at first I thought they might be coming to confront us, it turned out they were there to comment on what was happening inside. They were from a gay Christian organization, one explained, and they were attending the symposium so they could expose what actually goes on inside. To our delight they’ll be blogging their experiences (they were taking copious notes) and putting up videos on YouTube as soon as possible.

Security Patrol
At the ready to fend off Teh Gays. (Guess the boss is the one in the sharkskin suit.)

Shortly before 1pm we broke and moved on to the Billy DeFrank Center for the panel discussion on the “Ex-Gay” industry. The discussion was well attended with an audience of about 25. The panel consisted of, in alphabetical order:

Reverend Sky Anderson, Minister of Community Life, Metropolitan Community Church of San Jose.
Wayne Besen, Executive Director, Truth Wins Out.org.
Gloria Nieto, President, Silicon Valley LGBT Democratic Club.
Robert Elster, Ex-Gay Survivor.
Aejaie Sellers, Executive Director, Billy DeFrank LGBT Community Center.

After introductions by Aejaie Sellers, Wayne Besen opened with a brief history of the Ex-Gay industry. The first Ex-Gay ministries began right here in San Rafael, California and at first the LGBT community didn’t pay them much attention because they weren’t seen as a significant threat. Then in 1998 things changed as the RRRW figured out that if they could convince people that being gay was a casual choice, “like what to have for dinner”, then they could push through anti-gay legislation. LGBTs then became the “cultural landing for the culture wars”. ( This handy timeline by Jeremy Townsley provides much more detail about the rise of the Ex-Gay industry. )

Panel Photo 1
Left to right: Rev. Sky Anderson, Wayne Besen, Robert Elster, Aejaie Sellers

Robert Elster then took the floor and described his experiences as an Ex-Gay Survivor. He stated that “God called us to be homosexuals”. Robert participated in both Love in Action and Homosexuals Anonymous, two well-known Ex-Gay programs some 20 years ago. Electroconvulsive Therapy (ECT) was one of the more severe options suggested to Robert to eradicate his same-sex attractions. (Mind you this was well after homosexuality was removed from the DSM. ) During his time with the programs he was constantly assured that if he would only try to be straight he could be straight, and it was even implied that if he were to marry a woman that would make him straight. So out of desperation he married a woman thinking that would “cure” him. After several years and the birth of his two children he decided to stop deceiving himself, his wife and everybody else and admit the truth. He was still gay and always had been. Sadly it took a protracted legal battle for him to be allowed any contact with his children, for the usual prejudices against LGBT people were in play, and at the time of this post he’d just recently won his case.

Wayne commented that Robert’s story was typical of Ex-Gay Survivors. He then summarized the experience of being an Ex-Gay stating, “How can we be anything when we spend all of our time trying not to be something?” Wayne then offered the floor to Reverend Sky Anderson.

Rev. Sky stated that he is often contacted by churches that are supportive of the LGBT community and need advice on how to deal with the animosity they face from others for their support. Sadly doing the right thing often comes with a price tag attached. He went on to say that the Ex-Gay movement, particularly in its early stages, was reminiscent of the Briggs Initiative and Propositions A&B. Specifically that they started out quietly…”with a whisper”. He further stated that “seeing an Ex-Gay movement here opens old wounds”. He feels that it is “only the beginning of something that is going to be much bigger”.

Wayne observed that the Ex-Gay movement seems to be winding down. This is the second event he’s seen for which there were no billboards announcing it. Perhaps, he said, “the message isn’t resonating (with the general public) as much anymore and they’re just speaking to the choir”. Youth, in general, are not as responsive to the radical, anti-gay message as are older individuals. “For every one person converted are they turning off five others?”

Panel Picture 2
Left to right: Gloria Nieto, Rev. Sky Anderson, Wayne Besen

Gloria Nieto then explained that the greatest force behind Ecumenicals (in politics) was Karl Rove. Now that he’s no longer there as their “architect” the GOP is rather without a rudder. “There is no roadmap for them right now.” The anti-gay movement in the Latino community went from Rove to “higher-profile evangelicals” such as Ruben Diaz who has one foot in the political camp and one in the religious. Gloria then asked the important question, “How do you know what is going on in Spanish-speaking communities if you don’t speak Spanish?”. One answer is Blabbeando, who monitors a variety of Spanish-language blogs.

Robert asked Wayne about the “statistics” (or lack thereof) provided by Joseph Nicolosi. Wayne replied that when pressed, Nicolosi replied that he “didn’t have time” to get the requested statistics (but that he sure had time to cash his clients’ checks). Then Wayne went on to say that NARTH/Exodus “experts” typically cover themselves by quoting one another for their vague statistics.

Aejaie then commented that Ex-Gay “therapy” is “more manipulative than therapeutic”. Wayne explained that they’re always looking for a reason for gayness. Lesbians were molested as children. Gay men were too close to their mothers or not close enough to their fathers. For transgender people it’s all of the above taken to the extreme. The “therapy” techniques range from the bizarre to the downright abusive. Women are given “makeup seminars” and discouraged from playing sports. Men are taken out to play touch football and have nude massages for non-sexual male bonding (!). Participants are encouraged to develop (non-sexual) friendships with straight people of the same gender under the premise that this will make them straight. Rev. Sky Anderson noted that some programs have utilized ECT and even electrodes on mens’ penises as means of attempting to rid them of same-sex desires.

Then Aejaie asked the panel members to suggest the top three things LGBT people can do to fight the Ex-Gay movement. Gloria Nieto said, “Keep talking to politicians. Tell the truth about who we are.” Reverend Anderson stated, “First, we’ve got a lot of work to do between the trans community and the gay community.” Then he added, “Stand with whoever is oppressed”.

Wayne feels there are three major areas we could be doing better.
1- Money; we’re “out-financed”
2- Outreach; Truth Wins Out has a staff of two and a small budget. By comparison Exodus International and Focus on the Family have dozens of staff and billions of dollars (particularly when you account for the more than 120 affiliate ministries of Exodus International). FotF is the #1 program in Zimbabwe, for example, which means they’re spreading their lies to a market we have no chance of even reaching yet. We’re sadly outmatched in this department.
3- “We could use a lawsuit against these guys”. Not against the ministries, because of course they’re protected under Freedom of Religion. But against the so-called “therapists” who inflict the damage on program participants. Even a few of these suits could begin the real downfall of the Ex-Gay industry.

Robert added his own list:
1- “Bloom where you’re planted.” , e.g., your own church– work from within whatever community you belong to
2 - Youth. Robert wants to pass own story to them so they will never become complacent
3 - We need to find peace & harmony w/in ourselves and stop beating up each other within our own community

Aejaie added, then, that we need to engage the entire community, not just the LGBT community, in our efforts to thwart the Ex-Gay industry. She then opened the floor to questions from the audience.

So that’s about it for now. I anticipate video and local stories being available soon and I’ll provide them when I can. Until then…

 

Truth Wins Out Update.

Thursday, April 10th, 2008

Truth Wins OutAs I posted previously, Truth Wins Out is in the San Jose area for a number of events to fight the “Ex-Gay” industry. My SO and I attended the press conference earlier today at the Billy DeFrank Center and met Wayne Besen, Aejaie Sellers and others who have put this event together.

On Saturday at 11am there will be a prayer vigil outside the Abundant Life Christian Fellowship in Mountain View, which is where the Love Won Out symposium is being held. Here is a Google Map of the church location for handy reference. At 1pm there will be a panel discussion on the “Ex-Gay” industry at the Billy DeFrank Center in San Jose. Directions to the center are available here.

We would love to see you there, be you LGBT, ally, faithful, faithless or any combination thereof!

 

Truth Wins Out is coming to CA (San Jose)!

Thursday, April 10th, 2008

Here’s the scoop, sorry for the late notice. I just got notice that there will be a number of events in San Jose to educate people on the dangers of the “Ex-Gay” industry and to protest the Love Won Out symposium. While this is short notice, particularly for the Thursday events, all who can attend are encouraged to do so.

 

What: TruthWinsOut.org Executive Director Wayne Besen will travel to San Jose this week to help educate people about the dangers of the ex-gay industry. Besen will join a group of local organizations at a press conference on Thursday, in an effort to ensure accurate information reaches the public and those attending the Love Won Out conference. Besen is also the author of “Anything But Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth.”

“It’s tragic that most of the people attending Love Won Out are parents who are looking for answers in the wrong place,” said TruthWinsOut.org’s Executive Director Wayne Besen. “We are speaking out to stop these parents from being exploited and we hope to dispel myths and misconceptions so they can learn to love and accept their gay children.”

Where: The Billy DeFrank GLBT Community Center
938 The Alameda
(West of the HP Pavilion Arena, between Race St and Hwy 87)

When: Thursday, April 10
11 AM

Who: Aejaie Sellers, DeFrank Center’s CEO/Executive Director

Bill Roth, Catholic Democrats of California

Gloria Nieto, Santa Clara County LGBT Democrats

Wayne Besen, Executive Director, TruthWinsOut.org

Rev. Michael Ellard, Metropolitan Community Church of San Jose

Saturday Activities: On Saturday, April 12, a prayer vigil will take place at 11 AM, in front of the church hosting Love Won Out - Abundant Life Christian Fellowship, 2440 Leghorn Street, Mountain View. Also on Saturday, the DeFrank Center will host a panel discussion on the ex-gay industry at 1:00pm (938 The Alameda, San Jose). Joining Sellers and Besen will be Rev. Michael Ellard (Metropolitan Community Church of San Jose), Bill Roth (Catholic Democrats of California), Gloria Nieto (Santa Clara County LGBT Democrats) and ex-gay survivors.

Love Won Out is a quarterly ex-gay symposium sponsored by Focus on the Family. John Paulk, an ex-gay leader who was on the cover of Newsweek and appeared on Oprah, 60 Minutes and Good Morning America, originally ran the program. Love Won Out suffered a major setback after Paulk was photographed in a Washington, DC gay bar by Besen.

TruthWinsOut.org is a non-profit organization that counters right wing propaganda, exposes the “ex-gay” myth and educates America about gay life.

 

I’d love to see you there!

 

Barf Alert Roundup.

Tuesday, April 8th, 2008

I have a grab-bag of articles that will have you reaching for the anti-emetics. The first comes from Truth Wins Out regarding Stephen Black’s support of Sally Kern at the recent Rally for Sally.

Humbled Infidel has the complete speech by ex-gay activist Stephen Black at a pro-bigotry rally held April 2 on behalf of Oklahoma state Rep. Sally Kern.

Black is the executive director of First Stone Ministries, an Oklahoma-based Exodus member “ministry.”

A point-by-point analysis of Black’s speech finds appeals to conformity, false and unsourced statistics, and sweeping dehumanization of sexual strugglers. Instead of healing strugglers and reuniting families, Black’s rhetoric divides families and alienates Americans whom he has falsely maligned.

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Black calls for conformity with what “we believe,” not reconciliation with what God might actually have uniquely intended for each individual, whose struggles differ in origin and nature from First Stone’s cookie-cutter model of sexuality.

I stand with Rep. Sally Kern today to say that I, who once lived as a gay man, agree with her assessment, that there is a political agenda and a cultural message about homosexuality [and] that it is destructive to our country.

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The entire article is a must-read and contains many more important links. Next up are fundie-wingnuts having fits over a school event that asks kids to dress as the opposite gender. Apparently they think it will give kids Teh Gay or make them transgender much like standing next to tall people makes them tall.

Students at Pineview Elementary had been dressing in costume all last week as part of an annual school tradition called Wacky Week. On Friday, students were encouraged to dress either as senior citizens or as members of the opposite sex.

A local resident informed the Voice of Christian Youth America on Friday. The Milwaukee-based radio network responded by interrupting its morning programming for a special broadcast that aired on nine radio stations throughout Wisconsin. The broadcast criticized the dress-up day and accused the district of promoting alternative lifestyles.

“We believe it’s the wrong message to send to elementary students,” said Jim Schneider, the network’s program director. “Our station is one that promotes traditional family values. It concerns us when a school district strikes at the heart and core of the Biblical values. To promote this to elementary-school students is a great error.”

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The theme for Friday’s dress-up day came from students, Hayes said. The Wacky Week schedule was created by Pineview’s Student Senate with the guidance of secretary Shari Miller.

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About 40 percent of the student body dressed up Friday, Hayes estimated, with half portraying senior citizens and half dressing as the opposite sex.

Kids mocking senior citizens is A-OK. Dressing up like the opposite sex is a crime against nature and “traditional family values”, which apparently means hating anybody who is different than you.

I now move on to the first news regarding my dear “friend” Peter LaBarbera. Queerty reports:

In even more war-ish news, the brutish Peter LaBarbera and his pals at Americans For “Truth” ain’t gay about Out’s list of the universe’s most powerful homos:

“We are intrigued by the fact that the same movement that once cried out for “privacy” and “to be left alone” feels free to publicly declare people’s homosexuality for them (Anderson Cooper, No. 2, and Jodie Foster, No. 43).

On the other hand, if OUT is right, it might explain Cooper’s bias in his reporting on the homosexual issue: in a recent interview that the CNN host did with pro and con advocates on a ”gay parenting” story, he blatantly favored the “gay” side in his questioning.

Regardless of whether Cooper practices homosexuality, as a professional he should be completely even-handed in his treatment of this controversial moral question.”

This from a man who uses his influence to spread blatantly biased spread gay panic and supports Sally Kern, the politician who called non-Christians “infidels” and equated gays with terrorists? Who’s even-handed?

Notice how homosexuals always “practice” homosexuality no matter how long they’ve been gay, yet heterosexuals never “practice” it even during their first experience? And since when has Peter LaBarbera ever given a moment’s care or thought to “even handed” portrayal of anything?

Next Petey spews his hatred and ignorance on Thomas Beatie. Frankly I’m surprised it took this long.

News out of Bend, Oregon is that male resident, Thomas Beatie, is 22 weeks pregnant. Articles have been written and an appearance on the Oprah Winfrey Show is scheduled. Looking closer, news of a Pregnant “Man” is just a myth.

Thomas Beatie, the Bend, Oregon man making news as a “Pregnant Man” was born Tracy LaGondino, a woman, 34 years ago. Tracy was a lesbian who fought for the right of gay couples to adopt children and against hate crimes in Hawaii, before moving to Bend 2 years ago.

Tracy fell in love with another woman, Nancy Roberts in Hawaii and they desired to be married, strictly against even Hawaii’s liberal laws.

Tracy decided she should obtain a sex change because Hawaii’s laws did not support same sex [”marriage.”] She underwent a double radical mastectomy and began hormone therapy to change her gender to that of a male, but keeping her female reproductive organs.

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I guess Peter has doesn’t understand that a gay person can also be transsexual, and vice-versa. Some minds are just too narrow for their (and our) own good.

Finally, Petey is wringing his hands because Oklahoman Editor Ed Kelley doesn’t love Sally Kern as much as he and her other rabid supporters do.

More arrogance from the liberal media below — in this case, on online voiced editorial by Daily Oklahoman Editor Ed Kelley. Of course, Kelley is free to leave journalism and become a political activist — which does not seem like much of a transition after reading this. Perhaps he could even run for office on the “real issues” he talks about below. That would take a lot of work, especially if he’s as out of touch with Oklahoma’s voters as it appears.

Nope, it’s much easier for Kelley to whine about the people whom his newspaper is supposed to serve and respect. On the day that the “Rally for Sally” drew 1,500 or more people to the capital — to defend a decent, Christian woman who was the target of a national homosexual campaign — Kelley’s paper ran a condescending (and inaccurate) editorial that ended, “Perhaps constituents ought to hold a rally of their own, urging this one-trick pony to put her tiresome personal agenda aside and work to do something constructive.”

Interesting Peter should comment about the people Kelley’s paper is supposed to serve and respect. Sally Kern certainly wasn’t thinking about the people she was supposed to serve and respect when she went on her vile, homophobic rant several months ago. She didn’t consider her LGBT constituents, their friends, their families or their allies, nor did she consider the LGBT children of her constituents. But then those citizens don’t seem to be of much import to the likes of Sally Kern or Peter LaBarbera except as political footballs and fundraising tools.

Well, that’s as much as I can handle for now without a hefty dose of Pepto-Bismol. I think I’ll go read something more cheerful like 1984 or Ethan Frome .

 

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Addendum. A comment has arrived regarding Thomas Beatie. Ebon said.

Here’s a prediction: In about ten or twelve years, Mr. Beatie’s child will either be completely average in virtually every way and therefore be ignored by the RW or (probably a few years later) he will have been so poisoned against his parents that he will give speeches about how terrible they were and the RW will laud him.

I don’t know whether her (it seems the baby is to be a girl) parents plan to tell her that her father is transgender but even if they don’t I’m sure she’ll find out. I hope that the bigots don’t ruin things for her because I’m sure she’ll be loved and treated well at home. Who knows, maybe things will be very different for LGBT people and their families in another 10-15 years–but I’m not holding my breath.

 

Truth Wins Out: Fighting the “Ex-Gay” Fraud.

Wednesday, March 19th, 2008

Truth Wins Out Announces Multimedia Website Refuting “Ex-Gay” Myth.

Tuesday, March 18th, 2008

This is certainly good news in the fight against the anti-gay agenda.

Ex-Gay Watch Founder Michael Airhart
To Blog Daily On Site

Truth Wins Out LogoNEW YORK – TruthWinsOut.org (TWO) launched its innovative new website today, enhancing its ability to fight the ex-gay myth and right wing propaganda. The site will be a leading educational resource and an all-encompassing look at the dangerous world of conversion therapy. For years, the ex-gay industry had dominated the flow of information on this topic. With this site, our movement has finally surpassed our opponents and we now have the means to counter ex-gay lies and reach vulnerable people with messages of truth and hope.

“TruthWinsOut.org is a one-stop-shop for information on the ex-gay myth and an action center for those who want to fight back against this insidious industry,” said TWO’s Executive Director Wayne Besen. “We believe this site will help people come out, keep families together and even save lives. This is a great day for those who have long wanted to stop the spread of ex-gay misinformation and help people escape the ex-gay trap.”

Michael Airhart, who founded Ex-Gay Watch in 2002, will publish daily on TWO’s blog, offering his penetrating insights and a deep understanding of this topic. Airhart formerly worked as senior business editor for McClatchy-Tribune news wires in Washington. In 2005 he became a director for a leading blog syndication company. He also co-founded Men Can Stop Rape in 1997.

“The ex-gay industry has declared war against GLBT people as it has become enmeshed with the far right,” said Michael Airhart. “By joining with TruthWinsOut.org, I am answering a personal calling to defend individual liberties, religious freedom, constitutional rights, family unity — and sexual strugglers — against exploitation by divisive, intolerant and dishonest extremists.”

TWO’s website will include an extensive and unprecedented video catalogue of “ex-gay” survivors and sexual orientation experts. The videos and website highlight an active and robust year, where TWO will challenge the “ex-gay” industry across America.

To make this dream a reality, TWO has relied on the contributions of generous foundations and individuals. On behalf of the people TWO has already helped and will assist in the future, we would like to thank the Arcus Foundation, Gill Foundation, William A. Kerr Foundation and John Sweet, Andrew Tobias, VanAmeringen Foundation, Jonathan D. Lewis Foundation, Weston Milliken and the Liberty Hill Foundation, Bill Cohen and the Haworth Press, Mitchell Gold, Linda Ketner, Karen Ferguson, Richard Nolan and Bob Pingpank, Worth Ross and Clint Trout.

We would also like to honor those whose smaller donations have been so crucial to our success. And, we give special thanks to our talented webmaster and Internet guru Phillip Perry, Davyd Dixon for leading on this project, Joel Lawson for his strategic public relations advice, Lisa Fels for her ongoing support and Paul Schappaugh, our dedicated IT specialist and database manager.

“This was a team effort and I thank everyone who has invested in TruthWinsOut.org and who labored intensively to create this beacon of illumination,” said Besen. “With continued support, we can build on this achievement and aggressively combat the predatory and well-funded ex-gay industry.”

Additionally, TWO is using its new website to call for volunteers nationally to come forward and help us in cities where we will counter ‘ex-gay’ rallies. In 2008, it is also a major priority for the organization to videotape the testimonials of lesbian and minority survivors. If the so-called ‘ex-gay’ ministries have harmed you, please contact TWO and tell your important story.

TruthWinsOut.org is a non-profit organization that counters right wing propaganda, exposes the “ex-gay” myth and educates America about gay life. For more information, visit Truth Wins Out .

I look forward to this new resource in the ongoing fight against the “Ex-Gay” movement. Kudos to Wayne Besen and Michael Airhart!